How Healthy Love Feels

You survived something you may not yet have the words for. A relationship that trained your nervous system to mistake chaos for passion, silence for punishment, and your own needs for burdens. You learned to shrink, to apologize, to scan every room for danger before you could breathe.
And now you're wondering: Is this what love is supposed to feel like?

How Healthy Love Feels is the book your body has been waiting for. Through 28 intimate chapters, Kim Aronson guides you through the quiet markers of a relationship that actually works: the peace that doesn't require your constant vigilance, the partner whose words match their actions, the freedom to take up space without apology.

This isn't a book about finding love. It's about recognizing it when it finally arrives, and learning to believe you deserve it.

Because you do. You always did.

For anyone healing from toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, or patterns of people-pleasing who is ready to understand what safety actually feels like in your bones.