Safe to Be Seen

You did the work. You stopped people-pleasing, set boundaries, and found your center. You learned to stop disappearing into everyone else's needs.

So why do you feel so alone?

This is the cruel paradox of healing: the walls you built to protect yourself have become so high that even safe people can't get in. You've mastered being alone. But you've forgotten how to be with someone without losing yourself all over again.

Safe to Be Seen is for the Recovering Vapor, someone who has stopped fawning, stopped fixing, stopped shrinking, but now stands in the fortress of their own healing, wondering if intimacy is even possible anymore.

It is. And it doesn't require you to abandon everything you've built.

Through somatic practices, vulnerability protocols, and deeply practical tools, this book teaches you how to be genuinely known without fragmenting. How to ask for what you need without collapsing. How to stay present in your own body while someone else is having feelings about you.

You've already done the hardest part. Now it's time to let someone in.